Friday, July 22, 2022

Evangelical Lutheran Church in Canada apologizes for how it treated members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community









 

(Not Mennonite Brethren, but what another Canadian denomination did recently about this subject.)


At its July 15-16 online national convention, the Evangelical Lutheran Church in Canada (ELCIC) has apologized for how it treated members of the LGBTQ+ community in the past.

 

The apology was delivered by ELCIC Bishop Susan Johnson.

 

“Today I apologize to the members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community for the ways that we have not lived up to our commitments and to the ways we have treated you in the past and even now,” she said.

 

“I want to acknowledge the harms that members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community have experienced in our church.”

 

Johnson acknowledged the times members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community did not receive welcome, were denied sacraments, vocation, marriage rights, and didn’t have their proper gender identity affirmed.

 

She also acknowledged those who had been harmed but not said anything, including Lutherans who felt they needed to stay in closet “and not live out their full identity in our church.”

 

Looking ahead, Johnson said the ELCIC has “work to do. I cling to a hope that the entire church will learn from the past and work toward a future where all generations will feel acceptance, affirmation, and celebration for the gifts they bring our church as valued children of God.”

 

The vision of the ELCIC is to a “diverse, inclusive community that celebrates all and upholds life-giving relationships.


Wednesday, July 20, 2022

Replies to U.S. and Canadian MB conference's statement about missing pages in On Holy Ground

 








After the Canadian Mennonite Brethren Conference posted its statement in the MB Herald about the missing pages in On Holy Ground, people began to comment in reply. Find those replies below. Credit to the Conference for publishing the replies, most of which are critical of the decision. 

DORA DUECK 

As editor of this volume, I have tried to be gracious in describing my reaction to this action of the executive boards — my sense of deflation, discouragement, and so on — in a letter I wrote to two Canadian leaders about it, but to read this justification of the action and process this morning, subsequent to all that, has me stunned. And angry. It badly mis-characterizes both the book (making it narrower than described in the invitation to the contributors) and the portion that was removed. 

Anyone who reads the entire essay will see that it has not “suddenly departed,” will see that it is of a piece with the story of a long ministry, of struggle and change. To say it “proceeds” to make OT analogies within “a mini-theology essay” is simply false. The writer is recounting the experience of being asked by “a sincere young man” studying heresy what it was like to be “rebuked,” and then giving the context for his question. It was about speaking at a study conference, something that is very much a part of her history as a leader in the denomination. There is narrative throughout, this is *her* story! And can the executives not read the pain and complication here? And the bit about Esau, which runs throughout this writer’s piece, it’s a parallel, can’t they see?

And the waste of time and money and goodwill in destroying new books — accepted and cleared by the Historical Commission and already printed — and reprinting! And to simply “regret” that the “urgent timeline” didn’t allow for “personal conversations directly with the author, editor, and others involved”? This is tepid almost beyond belief. 

Perhaps it felt urgent then, but in the interval between when the action was taken and the need to explain themselves as leaders became apparent, there was plenty of time in which I, for example, could have been consulted. I could have helped them read this passage properly, could have explained why it belonged. Could have tried to make them see that this collection of life-writing is, essentially, historical document. The decision was wrong, the process was wrong. And there could have been conversation!

And saddest of all, for me, is the notoriety now given to a small portion, which the majority of readers — I’m convinced — would have understood as a part of one woman’s story, would have “let it be” whether they agreed or not. In the Editor’s note at the front of the book I said, “To be public with it [each woman’s story] carries some risk…and so my invitation to every reader is to listen well–with gratitude and interest, and without judgment–to the variety of voices here, and to each unique expression on the theme.” 

These stories deserve to be heard, each is unique, and somehow I can’t help feeling the book has been devalued and that the others will not be heard. I hope I’m wrong, that many will still buy the book and listen carefully — without judgment. (And, for those interested, the missing pages are available online to be read there.) 

I am responding with passion about this, yes, for all the above reasons, and perhaps, my “unusual step,” like theirs. I wish I could weep but this has hollowed me out. 

JON BRANDT 

So disappointing. The MBs have continued to deny the moving of the Spirit. I’m grateful I have found other Mennonites more willing to engage in a communal hermeneutic and listen to God speaking through God’s people. ‘Your daughters shall prophesy’ has been ignored for decades. This control of power from the centre is symptomatic of the rot eating away at this denomination from the inside.

 PETER 

This is such a travesty. Shame on the Mennonite Brethren denomination. I am saddened that the churches of my youth have doubled down on misogynistic and homophobic doctrines that only serve to divide the body of Christ, rather than to unite it. I am not joking when I say that it is the continued sexism, homophobia, transphobia, and general disdain for the poor that has driven me out of the church.

 Let me be clear: I am no longer a Christian precisely because of actions like these. What did Jesus say? “Leave town and shake the dust off your feet?” Consider it done, and with pleasure.

LEE

So a woman’s voice was silenced in a book commissioned to feature women’s voices. Sadly, this seems to be indicative of the struggle women continue to face in this Conference. This article leaves out the fact that 270 copies of the book printed with the objectionable 3 pages were destroyed at the CCBMC office. This article’s claim that the censored 3 pages would reinforce the “damaging stereotype that embracing women in leadership leads necessarily to an affirming stance on gay marriage for Christians” portrays a need to hyper-control messaging and infantilizes the book’s readers.

I do not think that the three pages that were censored, which can be found at the link below, are “a mini-theology essay advocating for a type of LGBTQ+ inclusion.” The author clearly talks about her experience of wrestling with matters of LGBTQ+ inclusion as analogous to her experience of having an evolving understanding of women in leadership as a result of study, discernment and practicing a community hermeneutic. 

The censored pages also explore what it means to struggle with deep cultural questions in light of Scripture and to hold safe space for real dialogue among Christians who have different understandings of the Bible. The fact that MB leadership did not have a personal conversation directly with the author, editor, and others involved is yet another example of what I have seen as anxiety and a utilitarian ethic that sees the upholding of current Confessional convictions as the supreme goal, resulting in a disregard of relationship. 

To me, these are not the actions of a Conference committed to God’s dream of shalom – peace in all our relations. Being a Christian (individual, church, or Conference) is about more than rigidly defending what you think are right beliefs. I urge those who were part of this decision to move beyond a mere expression of “regret” and to consider confession and repentance for this disrespectful process. Sadly, the handling of this situation misses the mark. https://timetotellcanada.blogspot.com/2022/06/read-missing-pages-from-new-book-on.html

CRAIG CRESSMAN ANDERSON

Thank you for publishing Dora Dueck’s heartfelt eloquent response. Please resist pressure to remove it!

LORI MATTIES

This official response shows again how little understanding these decision makers have of the issue of women in ministry and the experiences these women have had to endure as they have tried to follow the call and invitation of God for their work. I doubt there are many pastors of any gender who have not had to navigate the growing questions about inclusion within the church. Mary Anne was brave enough to describe what this journey has been like for her. It is very much a story about being a woman in leadership. I, to, am disappointed and angry that her experience has been silenced. I can only conclude that such silencing is a reaction of fear toward the inevitable reinterpretation of what it means to be faithful in the context of our age.

JEFF TAYLOR

Whenever any change is at hand the more cautious of us warn of “slippery slopes,” as if all change leads to an unstoppable slide downwards into depravity. But that’s just not true. Change can just as easily take us a step further upwards, nearer to the mind of God whose thoughts are not always our thoughts. “For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, love, and a sound mind.” – 2 Timothy 1:7. 

TANYA RATZLAFF 

This is disappointing and sadly, expected from Mennonites in Canada. Women have been censored for centuries and there’s finally an opportunity to hear their voices…yet they’re censored once again?! 

WALTER THIESSEN 

The grace and humility that was apparent in the pages that were so unfortunately deleted are a contrast to the lack of grace and humility in this official response from the CCMBC. That contrast speaks for itself. Thanks to you, Dora Dueck, for your heartfelt words in reply. 

RYAN KARGEL 

It seems to me the unanimity of these comments is indicative of a greater problem. Some leadership in the conferences may not be headed in the same direction as many of the members. We are ready for this conversation. It isn’t a danger to our faith, and we are not afraid. Open discussion is part of who we are, and in 2022 this discussion is now critical to our peacemaking doctrines. As we have too-recently learned, people of the LGBT community are not the “other”, but are our parents, siblings, friends, and partners. They are us. The community isn’t going to magically vanish and save us the trouble of self-evaluation and critique. While the denomination is somehow still debating whether girls can be trusted on stage, the rest of us are generations past that question, and have become eager for even more inclusiveness. Openness of narrative should dominate here. 

BRYAN BORN 

At the risk of facing considerable opposition, I thought I would stumble into this extremely treacherous minefield of a discussion. I’ll begin with a few observations. 

First, it appears the author of the disputed piece has accomplished what every author desires when they write for the public – lots of people are reading those three pages. Probably far more than would have ever read it had it not been excised from the book. 

Second, a quick perusal of the comments section here, and at other sites, would indicate that she has garnered considerable support for her position. 

Third, we are in a place where it has become extremely difficult to have a serious conversation about the merits or demerits of what she has written. However, instead of the commenting on the editorial process, the recall, or the way it’s being used to promote or discredit certain views, I want to address the content of those pages, in particular, the references to two passages of Scripture. 

Here’s my brief perspective on the author’s use of Genesis 27 (story of Esau’s ‘blessing’ from Isaac), and I Samuel 8 (where God grants Israel’s request for a king). To be frank, I am somewhat surprised that anyone would seriously use these texts to argue for an inclusive position in terms of accepting sexual intimacy outside of a covenantal relationship between a man and woman. 

Consider for a moment the character of Esau. I’m quite sure that he is not included in any list of the ‘heroes of the faith.’ Do you really want to make Esau your exemplar? And even more concerning, study the ‘blessing’ he received. Personally, if I had been him, I’d go have taken a hard pass on that ‘blessing’. 

When it comes to Israel’s request for a king (I Samuel 8), I suppose it is a little more ambiguous, but certainly not an unqualified endorsement. Through the prophet Samuel, God warned the Israelites that it would be a disaster: “When that day comes, you will cry out for relief from the king you have chosen, but the Lord will not answer you on that day” (I Sam. 8:18). 

Clearly this prophecy was fulfilled in Israel’s history. And yet, someone would argue that this passage is an appropriate passage to bolster their position? I find that rather bewildering. Perhaps there are more compelling biblical arguments for making a fundamental theological/ethical change from what the church has believed and taught regarding this topic for millennia? If so, I would suggest that those promoting a progressive position on this topic, and others, work harder at developing a biblical apologetic. Unless, of course, what the Bible has to say on this topic and others is no longer their concern. 

GEOFF DUECK THIESSEN 

When confessions of faith and pastoral credentials are weaponized; when censorship is used as thought control for the preservation of a theology rooted in “what has always been”…this is when a new reformation is called for. What kept me in the MB world was opportunities to work out my own faith through inquiry within a safe community at MBBC/Concord/CMU. There is still opportunity for us to see the violence here and shift, but it must be done quickly as lines have now been crossed which signal that we have more than ever traded plow shares back in for weapons. 

SUE SORENSEN 

Editor Dora Dueck’s impassioned, intelligent, and committed response is in stark contrast to the patronizing and offhand tone of the official statement. This does seem to be one of those “one step forward, seven steps back” moments in the institutional church. The boards’ action speaks loudly about the silencing of women past and present and the very-much-related silencing of other marginalized and disempowered individuals and communities. It is a blessing that Christ’s church can be found everywhere and is not confined within narrow walls and narrower ideas. 

TIM NEUFELD 

Commenting from south of the border here… All excellent points in the above comments. One of the most interesting pieces in this statement is the very conspicuous defense (as part of a larger justification) that the Executive Boards are “made up of men and women leaders.” 

This seems an odd thing to lead with. Yet, a quick check of the directories on both the CCMBC and USMB websites reveals some telling data. Of the 20 CCMBC Executive Board members, six are women (30%). Of the 18 USMB Leadership Board members, just two are women (11%). Both national directors are men. 

On the American side of the table, all the board offices (chair, vice chair, etc.) are held by men, as are the pastoral positions (five district ministers). At a study conference in January of 2019, the USMB leadership doubled down on the assertion that women cannot be ordained, yet adamantly pronounced a new era of opportunity for women (just not as lead pastors), conveying affirmation in all other roles.

The dismal data above points to a very different and gloomy reality for MB women. And the contradictory message that women are valued but only up to a certain point is further fortified in the decision to censure a woman’s personal experience, then release a statement of justification rather than an apology. Which, in the end, makes this book profoundly important, beyond anything the creators ever could have foreseen. 

LAURA KALMAR 

I recognize that our current culture makes it extremely challenging to be a leader, with secularization, intense polarization and pressures on so many fronts. But the leadership of the church needs to do better – to be a witness of community at its best, to have enough courage to engage in tough conversations, to be messengers of Jesus’ gospel of reconciliation.

I disagree with the decision made by the boards to remove part of Mary Anne’s story from On Holy Ground. And I take issue with the process. 

The fact that the editor, writer and other contributors were not informed of the decision is simply unacceptable. The manuscript was available far before it went to print (I know my chapter was edited and ready to go almost a year ago), suggesting there was ample time to review and make decisions using appropriate processes, including consultation and conversation rather than last-minute reaction. 

Did board members even have a chance to read the whole book? I would plead with each one to read the whole volume to fully understand the experiences recorded. These are critical voices – reflecting the work of the Holy Spirit among us as Mennonite Brethren – and should not be dismissed. These are enlightening journeys. And I know that each one (mine included) was submitted with some fear and trepidation, knowing our stories could be dissected, judged, ignored or dismissed. Which is, sadly, exactly what happened. 

The act of silencing voices and creating a culture of fear has created a toxic environment within our denomination, resulting in the departure of many fine and godly leaders. I believe this grieves the heart of God, who calls us to a posture of love, faithfulness and reconciliation (which, ironically, was the very message of Mary Anne’s story). 

In the 2018 CCMBC board review, moderator Bruce Enns outlined several commitments, including: 1) endeavour to create a culture where people feel heard; and 2) commit to changing our posture toward those who disagree with us, and strive to be more humble in engaging with them. The process by which content was removed from On Holy Ground without consultation has made a mockery of these commitments. 

ANNETTE VOGT 

As an ethnic Mennonite, I’m embarrassed, once again, to read about such a powerplay and to be associated with such a narrow minded, judgmental group. Such disrespectful actions by those who feel they represent God and the church is surely a sign of deep insecurity in ones faith. God’s spirit and grace is ubiquitous…far-reaching. Those who waste their effort, in God’s name, to shut down stories of grace and peacemaking are sadly misguided and stand in the way of promoting a faith worth joining.

JAMES KLASSEN

I remember (in the sense of historical memory) that once upon a time Mennonites were the derided because they didn’t fit the categories of their Age – because they chose to stand against the status quo, holding that true evangelical faith meant clothing the naked, feeding the hungry, caring for the destitute. They knew what it meant when the prophets reminded ancient Israel about their obligations to the “widow and the orphan”, code language in the first Testament for the marginalized. 

Standing where our Mennonite forebears did perhaps wasn’t intended as a political act, but it had enormous political implications, and they paid for it with their lives. And they did this with outstretched hands to help their enemies, even as their enemies confiscated and burned their books (“Joriaen Simons Burned”, The Martyrs Mirror; Part II, p. 179, 1685 ed.). This I remember, with gratitude.

That was then. Today, we seem to have forgotten. We are beset with amnesia. We have forgotten Matthew 25 and Jesus’ story of the sheep and goats, where the question posed to the characters in the story is not whether they believed the right things but about how they treated those who lived on the margins. In our forgetting we have moralized faith to extremes. Now, what we believe appears to be more important than how we behave. We are no longer known as a people who clothed the naked, fed the hungry, and welcomed the stranger. Now, we are known for our ‘right beliefs’. And, it would appear, we are pretty vigilant about that.

In the 1991 film “Hook”, a grown-up Peter Pan has gone corporate. He has forgotten who he is and now is all about making the deal. He is angry, aggressive, conniving. He has become a “taker”. But when he and his family travel to London for Christmas to see his aunt Wendy, she confronts him. “Peter, you’ve become a pirate.”

Perhaps amnesia can lead to piracy.

Let’s not become pirates. Welcome others as Christ has welcomed you (Paul).

 

 

Saturday, July 16, 2022

When U.S. & Canadian MB conferences censored Mary Anne Isaak, "they silenced me, too" says Michelle Morrow, whose story was in the missing pages















“When the Canadian and U.S. Mennonite Brethren conferences censored Mary Anne Isaak’s story in the book On Holy Ground, they silenced me, too.” 

That’s the view of Michelle Morrow, whose story about wrestling with her sexuality and coming out as LGBTQ+ was told by Isaak in the missing pages from the book about the challenges facing women in ministry in that denomination.

In those pages, Isaak spoke appreciatively of how she came to know Morrow—then known as Michelle Ferguson—at College Community Church (now Willow Avenue) in Fresno, CA and how that friendship influenced her view of LGBTQ+ and faith.

Morrow first met Isaak at an event to discuss issues of sexuality. At that time, Morrow’s personal experience and theology were deeply shaped by the ex-gay movement.

She had even spent time after graduating college at Fresno Pacific University working for Exodus International, a leading ex-gay ministry organization (now closed).

After completing a MA in Theology at Fuller Theological Seminary, Morrow returned to Fresno to teach at FPU as adjunct faculty. She decided to join College Community largely due to her relationship with Isaak.

“Mary Anne invited me to preach, and I was surprised because of my previous experiences in MB churches where I was silenced and/or discouraged from leadership,” she said.

“I felt so affirmed by her invitation and the response I received after preaching that I knew I wanted to be part of this community.”

Morrow became a member and, for the next few years, taught at FPU, served on the staff at MB Biblical Seminary. She actively participated in the life and leadership of the church.

Looking back, Morrow realizes that she was repressing her sexuality and avoiding further theological development in order to maintain her place in the MB family.

“I did not know then that I was choosing my place in the denomination over my authenticity and wholeness,” she said.

“Now I see that my desire to belong kept me from being able to tell the truth about myself even to myself.”

In 2010, when MBBS merged with FPU, Morrow was among the many staff who were laid off.

During that tumultuous time, she reached a point where she could no longer avoid her sexuality, and she spent the next two years re-examining her interpretation of the bible and wrestling with her theology.

“My focus during that time was theological work. I was finally able to be honest with myself about being gay, so I turned to the biblical text seeking a faithful response to my reality.”

She was terrified, afraid of loss and rejection.

“I knew that if I came out and became affirming, everything would change. I knew there would be considerable risks,” she said.

In 2013 she reached a place of reconciling her faith and sexuality. She came out, experiencing deep loss. This included significant relationships and the long-time dream of ever being able to work or teach at FPU again.

Later that year, Morrow met Kim, and they married in 2015 a few months after the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in favor of marriage equality. They currently live near Nashville, TN.

Watching the controversy over the book from afar, Morrow said she is experiencing further silencing and exclusion at the hands of a denomination that has already caused so much suffering in her life.

“When Mary Anne asked if she could use my story in the book, I was honored. It was redemptive to hear that my story was valued,” she said.

Being deleted from Isaak’s story, however, sends the opposite message.

“This exclusion makes me and other queer people invisible,” she said. “Church and denominational leadership see us, our stories, our relationships, our theological journeys, as threats.”

While she applauds those who attended picnic protests about the censoring of the book, she hopes they won’t stop there.

“We have the ability to create change, especially if we understand how all practices of exclusion are connected and we work collaboratively to address misuse of power wherever it occurs,” she said, adding “LGBTQ+ exclusion is linked with the marginalization and exclusion of women, in ministry or otherwise. Our experiences are different, but they are related.”

By talking to a reporter, Morrow wanted to shine a light on the stories behind the stories—in this case her story, since it was also erased when Isaak’s was censored.

“This is happening all the time to many marginalized groups,” she said. “We don’t have to compete with each other for outrage or acceptance. We need to collaborate if we want to create real change.”

For her, if change is going to happen it will be a grassroots thing—like the picnics.

“It will not be top down. People can’t wait for permission. I hope this (the removal of the pages from the book) will be a catalyst for change, a spark,” she said.

Morrow works for LGBTQ inclusion in Christian spaces as an educator and consultant. To learn more about her, her work or to read her blog, you can visit https://michellefmorrow.com.

Thursday, July 14, 2022

Mary Anne Isaak, author of censored chapter in On Holy Ground, interviewed by CBC news in Winnipeg










Mary Anne Isaak, author of the censored chapter in On Holy Ground, was featured on CBC Information Radio in Winnipeg and CBC TV news on July 13.

Read and watch her interview.

Listen to her radio interview.



Photos and comments from the July 13 picnic protests in Winnipeg, Fresno and Waterloo

Fresno, California

 









Picnic protests were held in Winnipeg, Man, Fresno, Calif., and Waterloo, Ont. July 13 so people could show their disappointment over the removal of three pages from On Holy Ground, the new book about women in ministry in the Mennonite Brethren conference. 

About 70 people attended the picnic outside the Canadian Conference of Mennonite Brethren Churches office in Winnipeg; 30 people gathered outside the Pacific District Conference office of the U.S. Mennonite Brethren Conference in Fresno; and ten people picnicked at the Waterloo Mennonite Brethren Church in Ontario. 

After learning about the original Winnipeg event, Christa Wiens of Fresno organized a similar picnic protest in that city.

For the mother of four, the decision to remove the three pages prompted feelings of “hurt, disappointment and frustration,” the recurrence of an “old pattern of attempting to silence women,” she said. 

“But not only women, it goes beyond that to the LGBTQ+ community,” she added. 

The message she wanted to see communicated was “this is hurtful, you asked to listen and then you didn’t listen,” she said. 

In Waterloo, people gathered to give the protest a “cross-continental” flavour, said organizer Isaiah Ritzmann. “We just thought it would be good to join in.” 

At the events in Winnipeg and Fresno people made signs and signed thank-you cards to the book’s authors.

Winnipeg organizer Karissa Durant












A request was made for comment from Canadian Conference of Mennonite Brethren Churches Executive Director Elton DaSilva; this reporter was told he was not available to comment on the protest. 

In Fresno, Pacific District Conference District Minister Jordan Ringhofer mingled with the picnic protestors, buying them coffee and listening to their concerns.

Below find comments from a few Winnipeg participants. 

“How can you censor a book where women talk about how their leadership evolved in a book about women talking about leadership? It doesn’t make sense. Don’t ask for their opinion if you don’t want to hear them.” Anonymous 

Jade Nayler, Winnipeg















“I felt sick when I heard those pages were taken out of the book, that it was censored.” Susan Schmidt 

“I was disappointed. It was life writing. Mary Anne wrote about her life, but some of it was taken away. It felt wrong to me, especially not to have any conversation with her about it.” Sandy Loewen

Waterloo, Ont. participants












“I have a daughter who is almost two years old. I want her voice to be heard when she grows up.” Anonymous 

“I’m here to support Mary Anne. We shouldn’t be shutting down voices like hers. We need to create space for talking about LGBTQ+ welcome and inclusion.” Trudy Reimer

Lori Bohn signs thank-you cards in Winnipeg












“I’m here to celebrate the stories of women in the book. I’m sad and angry about what happened to Mary Anne’s story.” Fred Pauls 

“I believe we need to read the Bible from a more current point of view. My faith compels me to accept all, especially those on the margins, like LGBTQ+ people.” Margaret Froese 

Signs in Winnipeg















"I’m the mother of daughters. This is a very important issue to me. I can’t keep silent. This conversation has to happen. We are all made in the image of God. Christ invites all to the table.” Jade Nayler


Read about the protests in Anabaptist World.

Read an interview with Karissa Durant, who came up with the idea for the picnic protests.




Karissa Durant being interviewed by local
CBC TV news




Fresno

Tim Cruikshank writes a message on the sidewalk
in front of the CCMBC office in Winnipeg

Saturday, July 9, 2022

Picnic protest planned over decision to remove pages from On Holy Ground; will be held July 13 outside MB conference office in Winnipeg










The Winnipeg protest runs from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at 1310 Taylor Avenue

Mennonite Brethren church members and others in Winnipeg concerned about the decision by the Canadian and U.S. Mennonite Brethren conferences to remove three pages from On Holy Ground are invited to a picnic protest on July 13. 

The picnic protest will run from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. outside of the Canadian Conference of Mennonite Brethren Churches office at 1310 Taylor Avenue. 

The protest is being organized by Karissa Durant, 30, a Master of Theology student at Canadian Mennonite University. 

Durant, who is part of the Mennonite Brethren Conference, was inspired to organize the protest after reading the response by the Canadian and U.S. Mennonite Brethren Executive Boards about the removal of three pages from Mary Anne Isaak’s story in the book. 

In the missing pages, Isaak described her journey with the subject of LGBTQ+ welcome and inclusion, and compared the historic marginalization of women to what is happening to LGBTQ+ Mennonite Brethren today.

“I felt it was disrespectful of the book,” she said, adding she had sent a letter of concern to the Conference earlier. 

Thinking letters might just fall on deaf ears, Durant decided it would be better if people could “show up” to honour the book and protest the decision to remove the three pages from Isaak’s story. 

“The irony is lost on no one,” she said of the decision to remove pages from a story by a woman in an book meant to highlight women’s voices. 

Although the response to the decision to remove the pages “comes from a place of anger,” she wants the picnic protest to be respectful. 

For her, it’s a way to channel that angry energy into honouring the women who wrote stories in the book, along with all other women who have served in the denomination, or who wanted to but weren't permitted to do so. 

“We need to give space for women who have historically been marginalized in the Mennonite Brethren world,” she said, adding “I want to put the focus on the women in the book.” 

She would also like to hear an apology from the U.S. and Canadian Mennonite Brethren conferences for removing the three pages, and for the statement they released. 

“Just say sorry,” she said, adding she doesn’t expect them to apologize. 

She also hopes the picnic protest will show Conference leaders that many people care and it “isn’t just a social media thing.” 

“We want to make it known that what happened [with the book] is not OK, and the statement that the conferences released was not OK,” Durant said. 

At the event, participants are encouraged to bring a lunch and a blanket and signs that say things like “Just say sorry,” “Let women lead and speak,” “We are not a threat,” and “We will not be silenced.” 

The event will also feature the reading of Isaak’s chapter in the book, including the missing pages. 

Janell Friesen is planning to attend the protest. 

“I am thankful for the rare experience that I’ve gotten to be encouraged by my Mennonite Brethren faith community to take leadership roles,” she said. 

“I’ve been thankful for spaces to ask questions about theology and faith, but lately I’ve noticed this strange fear to even engage in these questions. That actually makes me fearful. So I need to respond in a way that I feel good about, and I’m hopeful that this will be that good way.” 

Members of Ontario Mennonite Brethren Church lose membership over subject of LGBTQ+, but not hope


Their church may not want them as members because they want to talk about LGBTQ+ welcome and inclusion, but a group of former members of the Waterloo, Ont. Mennonite Brethren Church (WMB) aren't willing to go easilyor give up hope for their church.

It goes back to 2018, when WMB—which annually asks members to sign a covenant to remain in good standing with the church—said that signing the covenant also meant supporting the Mennonite Brethren Confession of Faith "in word and deed." 

In response, a small but growing group of members indicated they were unwilling to sign the covenant due to their support for LGBTQ+ welcome and inclusion. 

“We are not in agreement with the MB Church’s position regarding people who are lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender,” they wrote to the church’s leaders.

They added the articles in the Confession about marriage and sexuality “have been widely interpreted within the Mennonite Brethren Conference to not allow members or leaders to hold that same-sex relationships can be good and honouring and holy.” 

They also said they didn’t believe the Confession is “timeless, infallible or inerrant.” 

For them “it represents the best of what our community could hear of God’s voice at that time. New understandings emerge.” 

The group pointed out some members of the congregation, including some in leadership, were at odds with other aspects of the confession, such as non-resistance—yet were able to remain in good standing. 

This showed, the group said, “the whole church does not have to agree with the Confession of Faith on every single point. Respect for community and respect for its confession is not contingent on agreement on every point.”

They added there was a time when Mennonite Brethren wouldn’t allow women to be pastors, but this changed over time with WMB helping to lead the way by inviting women to be elders and pastors.

The group—Darlene Bartha, Vicki Brown, Wes Coffey, Isaiah Ritzmann, Doug de’Rozario and Paul Shinkar, Craig Brown and Alison Feuerwerker—continued to meet to discuss the topic and encourage conversation about it in the church.

Then, in fall 2020, they discovered the church had removed them from membership—without any formal follow up.

In a letter sent to WMB leadership, the group stated they had lost their membership “without any pastoral conversations or due process.” 

“Nobody told us we weren’t members anymore,” said Brown.

“Our membership was just gone,” said Shinkar.

Ritzmann wasn’t surprised their memberships were revoked. “But at least talk to us about it,” he said, noting they only learned about being put out second-hand.

Although some group members are now going to other churches as a result of the decision, some have stayed although they can’t vote or be involved in leadership. They continue to hope WMB will be open to exploring the topic of LGBTQ+ welcome and inclusion.

“I think there is long-term hope at WMB and even the wider MB conference for more inclusion,” said Ritzmann, who said he feels called to promote reconciliation with the LGBTQ+ community.

“If we stay, it might have a chance at the church,” he said, adding the group wants to stay in dialogue with WMB leadership and sent them a letter in 2021 to continue the discussion.

“There are a lot of people hungry for conversation about this topic,” he said.

Shinkar agreed.

“I hope by sticking around we can offer ourselves as catalysts for conversation,” he said, adding they want to do it “graciously, seeking God’s heart. Maybe then reconciliation can happen.”

The 2021 letter was sent to all staff and every board member of the church. In it, the group acknowledged the topic is a cause of great anxiety for some, including many MB leaders.

But, the letter said, “this isn’t just an ‘issue.’ It’s about real human beings, their friends and family, and a watching world. To choose to open up the conversation is an act of love.”

Ultimately, the letter stated, “we are calling WMB to lead the way and be a people of reconciliation” with the LGBTQ+ community.

In June some members of the group met with a reporter to talk about their situation at WMB.

When asked why they are going public now, Coffey said each person in the group has their own reasons.

But a main one shared by all, he said, was “we didn’t feel heard.”

“Maybe this is our last kick at the can,” he said about talking to a reporter. “Maybe the church will hear us now.”

Coffey wanted to make it clear the group was not “dissing” WMB. He recognized, however, that the group's raw honesty may be overshadowing their desire to speak the truth in love.  

“We are seeking the Spirit’s guidance in this,” he said.

For Ritzmann, it’s also about letting LGBTQ+ people in WMB and the wider Mennonite Brethren denomination know they aren’t alone.

“It’s about speaking the truth in love, being fully open with our church,” he said, adding “we envision a place where LGBTQ+ people can be involved and included.”

A hopeful sign were two listening circles with members of the group and representatives from staff and lay leaders after the sending of the 2021 letter. But they are still waiting to hear about the issue of their membership. 

To date, no response has been received. But Coffey received a note from the Chair of the Board about finding a time to meet to discuss the group’s concerns. 

For him, "this is encouraging and provides a spark of hope."

Update on this blog: Time for a pause